Dear Friends,

Spring is a great time for goal setting with your business coach
Spring, glorious Spring is just around the corner! Are you allowing yourself to get excited about the magnificent approach of Spring? As I watch the blossoms begin to pop through the soil, the buds open on the trees, and the birds, bunnies and squirrels play and scurry about, I am reminded of the re-emergence of Life Itself. Our Universe is one of order, and I find that both lovely and reassuring! I KNOW that Winter precedes Spring, and Spring will usher in Summer, and Summer will relax into Fall, and Fall will settle into Winter as the earth, once again replenishes itself for the, well, we established that already…
For me, there is comfort in the promise of order in my life. However, this was not always so. I did not understand that I live in an orderly universe, and that Nature is showing me one of the many Universal Laws which most people do not understand. And, like many others, I was in resistance to something much bigger than me, and so as I disallowed and resisted Life Itself… Well, let’s just say that didn’t work out so well! Anybody able to relate? Okay, then, I guess it’s just me.
Now, you may think this is unimportant, and I assure you the opposite holds the truth! Just as there are natural laws that govern us and our wellbeing, there are Universal Laws that are in place, working all the time, which when understood, can and will deliver lives that most have not dared to imagine.
We all know there is a law governing electricity. We don’t have to understand the law to still be affected by it, right? If I put my finger into a wall socket – ouch! I’m GOING to receive a shock. Lots of children have found out, through direct experience, that this law affected them the exact same way it would affect me who knows about it and elected to test it anyway. The law is no respecter of persons. Why? Because it is a law! It just is. I can debate it, deny it, get angry about it – and still – if I test it, I’m going to experience the result of an uncomfortable, ah, current passing through my body.
Well, Friends, there is also a Law of Order. And most of us operate in direct opposition to this law. And then we wonder why Life is so hard. Why the other guy seems to get all the breaks? Why Life isn’t fair. The truth is, Life is amazingly fair. It couldn’t be any more fair! I believe this is why It is set up as Law, so that it is fair no matter your nationality, your race, your size, or anything else we perceive as differences. Whether you, your mate, me, or a criminal turn on a light switch, provided there is electricity, the light will come on! No matter which of us jumps from a high place, we will fall down. We don’t think, “well, I wonder if I will fall up this time?” No, because we have some understanding of gravity, and regardless of how much we know about it, we will still drop rather quickly, should we test the law.
Now, why is this really great news? Because, almost as easily as I have lived in resistance to this Law, once I begin to understand it, I can live in harmony with it! And living in harmony is the key. What does it mean though? It means become LIKE it. For instance, I begin to get my life, and me – in order. I clean up my space, I create some sense of routine in my life. I go to bed around the same time most nights, I arise at the same time in the mornings, I set aside quiet time during the day, in one particular space, to contemplate or meditate on something greater than my challenges. I can keep my car clean and orderly. I don’t have to be rigid; however, to be in harmony with a vital law, I do need to be, well, orderly! The reason this is set up for us as a law, is that we all function much better with order. We are calmer, more confident, relaxed and prepared to handle Life, as it happens. We are able to respond rather than react. It’s a gentler, more productive and tranquil life. And the calmer I am, the more open I am to notice what is all around me – to bless me. Like happiness, beauty, serenity, and, yes, new opportunities and possibilities!
I have learned that God, the Universe, whatever name you are comfortable with – loves order! The Universe has done a pretty good job of keeping the planets, sun, moon and stars from colliding, using some kind of order, so I’ve decided to join forces with That. The Universe is all Intelligence. I just figure if God is willing to help me, by teaching me to live within these laws, well then, I’m in! I’m going to start swimming WITH the current, I’ve done the other for way too long. I LOVE the idea of kicking back for a change, and yes, common as it may sound, go with the flow!
Be well!
Love, Cindy
Question or comments? Email Cindy Brett: kindness.cindy@gmail.com
*One of my favorite books on the subject of goal setting is the timeless classic “Think and Grow Rich”